· War
· Poverty
· Racism
· Natural disaster
· Isolation
· Hunger
· Noise
· Chaos
· Disease
· Environmental pollution
· Violence
As a child growing up, all I knew about cancer was that people died from it. When I was around 11 years old, my step dad sat me and my sister down on the couch, and told us that he had prostate cancer. I didn’t know what prostate cancer was at the time, but what I did know about cancer, is that it killed people. I was so scared that I was going to lose my dad that I pulled myself away from him. I didn’t want to lose my dad, and if he were to die, I wouldn’t know what to do without him. I thought that if I pulled myself away from my dad, it wouldn’t hurt as much when he died. For instance, I stop going around my dad, I stop talking to him, and I wouldn’t go to him when he called me. At the time, I didn’t know that those things had hurt my dad. I was just a young child who was scared of losing her father. Although, my dad suffered through several chemotherapy sessions, he eventually, became cancer free. So, now that I am older, I know more about the disease that they call cancer, and it’s many other diseases. A few years ago, my dad sat down with and talked to me about the way I acted as a child when he was sick. He told me how he was hurt that I wasn’t around when he was sick. He said he had needed me to be there for him because me and sister was the reason he was fighting for his life. As a child, I didn’t know that grownups needed us but now I do. I apologize to my dad for not being there for him, but I also told him that I was scared of losing him, and at that age, the only way I could keep from hurting was to forget about him. I know that sounds selfish and thoughtless, but that was the only way I knew how to deal with death. Don’t get me wrong, I love my dad to death, and I am glad that he is still here with me. Just like adults, children deal with life issues differently, and you can’t blame them for the way, they express themselves because that is just how they cope with things in order to survive. I have learned, as we grow, we will find new ways to deal with our issues. Till this day, I still don’t like the feeling of losing a person close to me, but I have grown so much in my faith that I have learned that it is God’s will and he makes no mistakes. I have learned not to leave people when they need you the most because one day you will need them. Now, when someone who is close to me is sick, the first thing I do is pray for them and then I go and see about them. I don’t run away from them anymore I am always there for them.
South Africa is one of the countries that I want to know more about when it comes to the link between HIV/AIDS, food insecurity, poverty, and children’s vulnerability now and in the future. Research has shown that
Several countries in Southern Africa now see large numbers of their population barely subsisting at poverty levels in years without shocks, and highly vulnerable to the vagaries of the weather, the economy and government policy. The combination of HIV/AIDS, food insecurity and a weakened capacity for governments to deliver basic social services has led to the region experiencing an acute phase of a long-term emergency. Vulnerability is a term commonly used by scientists and practitioners to describe these deteriorating conditions. There is particular concern about the vulnerability of children in this context and implications for children's future security. Through a review of literature and recent case studies, and using a widely accepted conceptualization of vulnerability as a lens, we reflect on what the regional livelihoods crisis could mean for children's future wellbeing. We argue that an increase in factors determining the vulnerability of households both through greater intensity and frequency of shocks and stresses (external vulnerability) and undermined resilience or ability to cope (internal vulnerability) are threatening not only current welfare of children, but also their longer-term security. The two specific pathways we explore are (1) erosive coping strategies employed by families and individuals; and (2) their inability to plan for the future. We conclude that understanding and responding to this crisis requires looking at the complexity of these multiple stressors, to try to comprehend their interconnections and causal links. Policy and programmer responses have, to date, largely failed to take into account the complex and multi-dimensional nature of this crisis. There is a misfit between the problem and the institutional response, as responses from national and international players have remained relatively static. Decisive, well-informed and holistic interventions are needed to break the potential negative cycle that threatens the future security of Southern Africa's children.
Reference
Drimie, S., Casale, M. (2009). Multiple stressors in Southern Africa: the link between HIV/AIDS, food insecurity, poverty and children's vulnerability now and in the future. American Psychologist, 21, 28-33. doi: 10.1080/09540120902942931